I had brain surgery AND I got my PhD!
I was wondering what the difference is between gossip and simply exchanging information about another person you may or may not know mutually. I am not nearly as sensitive to gossip as I was a few years ago while dealing with The Mother on a more full time basis. And I'd like to think that people I know now are not so apt to gossip about me - not that I have such a high profile life to gossip about. I still wonder though - not in a harboring-of-ill-will kind of way, but in that self regulatory manner in which I question myself; am I gossiping right now? What's the difference?
This all comes about because I have been approach by a few people over the last month inquiring of my surgery, where I have found myself correcting misinformation. Now, maybe my rather dry blog - what, 5 weeks ago? - about my pro-ceed-jure lent itself to surgery talk. Surgery brings to mind things like plastic wristbands, a small case of personal belongings, admitting staff, anesthesia, bad green jello and backless gowns. I have not experienced this personally. My pro-ceed-jure took all of 5 minutes, but the hullabaloo leading up to it equated to the fear a surgery instills as far as I was concerned. No, no surgery for me.
I am still curious about this whole scenario - I've been approached, discussed, and if I am blessed enough perhaps prayed about - some amount of the population in my bubble thinks I had surgery. However, I am left puzzled. If a concerned number of people think I did have surgery, it sure was lonely in the hospital. My phone didn't ring. I have no scrubbed up casserole dishes to return. And seriously folks, where's all my Get Well cards?
p.s. The pro-ceed-jure was not all it was cracked up to be, I still limp around with various amounts of tingling, numbness, achey/pinchy nerve like pain in my left hiney and leg ... and I am still grumpy. Yes, I am doing something about it, and no it is not surgery. Just in case you wanted to know.